People, she argued, develop intellectually and emotionally all their lives;two people may evolve very differently, making it uncomfortable, if not impossible, to live together.

• 她主张，人的一生心智与情感都在不断拓展，而夫妻双方的演变可能极为不同，这就使得继续厮守在一起是不愉快的甚至是不可能的了。