It is in this sphere that long experience is really fruitful, and it is in this sphere that the wisdom born of experience can be excised without being oppressive.

• 当你的孩子们已经长大，他们就要地他们自己的生活，如果你还是像他们小时候那样对他们关心备至，你就可能成为他们的包袱，除非他们特别麻木不仁。