a man should be self-reliant的用法和样例：
- A man should be judged by his deeds,not his words.
- A man should be judged by his deeds, not his words.
- A man should be generous. Don't be so mean, OK?
- Whoso would be a man should be a nonconformist!
- A man should be judged not by his words, but by his deeds.