Women who felt abandoned by their fathers are likely to choose emotionally unavailable husbands, for example, and men raised by hypercritical moms will be drawn to wives who pick on them, he says.

• 他说，例如，感到被她们的父亲抛弃的女人倾向于选择一个情绪不稳定的丈夫，被苛刻母亲抚养大的男人会选择挑剔他们的人做妻子。