They humiliate (by telling everyone in sight);or intimidate (issuing dire warnings about teen pregnancy);or celebrate, with florid gifts and arcane ritual.

• 他们觉得丢脸（当告诉所见之人时），或恐惧（传出可怕的少女怀孕之事），或庆祝（拿出好东西，为这隐秘成人仪式）。