There is a wholeness about the man or woman who has learned that he or she is strong enough to go through a tragedy and survive, who can lose someone and still seel like a complete person.

• 人生的完整性还在于一个男人或者一个女人懂得这样一个道理：他（她）发现自己能够勇敢面对人生悲剧而继续生存，能够在失去亲人之后依然表现出一个完整的人的风范。