Only the churlish keep score overtly, of course, but even generous people get uneasy when one party in a relationship takes and takes and takes without giving anything in return.

• 当然，虽然只有那些无礼的人们才会去公然做记录，可即便是慷慨大方之人当在关系中的一方出现索取、索取而不做出任何回的时候，也一样会感到不舒服。