Oh, yes, we Chinese also seek happiness, just as many Americans also prepare for hardship. However, the differences in priorities are revealed in different attitudes toward courtship and marriage.

• 不错,我们中国人也在寻找幸福,正如许多美国人也在准备应付艰辛一样。但是,对生活侧重点的不同解释了人们对恋爱和婚姻态度的不同。