Not only that, he would go to mourn or offer congratulations, because he realized now that gestures like these were not just a waste of money but an essential part of human fellowship.

• 不但是出了钱，他还亲自去吊祭或庆贺，因为他明白了这些事并非是只为糟蹋钱，而是有些必须尽到的人情。