Just preparing he dumbed you,if he not,then its better,if he does, then,you can do nothing about it. get as much money as you can. preparing it. for you and for your kids.

• 只有等着他抛弃你和你的孩子了；如故他最后没有抛弃你们；那最好；如过他最后还是抛弃你们了；你也做不了什么了.；尽量准备为你和你的孩子争取利益了