It disarms by being itself disarmed, strikes without wounds, wins wars without casualties--though not, of course, without victims.

• 魅力如爱，不用外力施威，承载自然天赋。魅力极具诱惑，但绝不苛刻，它和悦地捕捉、温柔地打动、和平地俘获“猎物”。