Even when the departing lover severs the relationship with honestly and compassion, and honours social and parental obligations, many rejected lovers swing violently from heartbreak to fury.

• 甚至当情人将这种离开处理得非常平和，真诚和具有同情心，像家人一般关照对方或者相敬如宾，很多被拒绝的人仍然要从难忍的悲伤中转而开始暴躁。