Disrespect, rejection, abuse, being ignored or neglected and negative reinforcements, such as put-downs and ridicule, also contribute, says counselor Barb Grady.

• 别人不敬的态度、遭人排斥、受虐、被冷漠对待或忽视以及负面的强调，如轻蔑和嘲讽也会影响自尊。