Demanding that others be wise and industrious is repellent, but teaching by example is magnanimous. Pardoning the foolish and greedy is noble. But forgiving ourselves is a waste of time.

• 天理、良心,要求别人是在骂人若要求自己则是讲道无理、私心,原谅别人是谓器量若原谅自己则是无知。