Dad, are you vicariously living through me in the hope that my accomplishments will validate your mediocre life and in some way compensate for all the opportunities you botched?

• 爸爸，你是不是通过我而假想替身地活着，以希望我的成就将使你平庸的生活正当化，并且在某个方式上补偿所有你糟蹋过的机会呢？