Consider, for example, those people who are so in love that they will do anything for their beloveds. Thery are putty in the hands of other. They rarely amount to anything because they have no purposes of their own in life.

• 例如那些正在热恋中的人，他们都愿意为所爱的人做任 何事，此时他们很容易受到对方的摆布，热恋中的人很难成就 什么事情，因为他们根本没有为自己定下什么目标。