And so we grow old believing we are nothing by ourselves, steadfastly shunning the opportunities for self-discovery and personal growth that solitude could bring us.

• 于是在成长的过程中我们逐渐相信，人如果独自生活便会一事无成，于是固执地逃避了独处可能带来的自我发现与自我发展的机会。